Feng Shui to attract popularity?

I've googled but all i can come up with is about feng shui's popularity, not how i can become more popular. i would like more friends! i have friends at work but they don't ask me to go out with them (probably because i'm married and have children). i'm fun! i would love for people to want me to go out with them. what should i put in the bagua and what bagua?